PART ONE: MARS AND VENUS STARTING OVER --
1 Mars and Venus starting over --
2 Why does it hurt so much? --
3 Emotional lag time --
4 Grieving the loss of love --
5 Getting unstuch --
6 Good endings make good beginnings --
7 The feeling better exercise --
8 Finding forgiveness --
9 Saying good-bye with love --
10 Letting go of hurt --
11 The 90-10 principle --
12 Processing our hot spots --
13 Always remember the love --
14 101 ways to heal our hearts --

PART TWO: Starting over on venus --
1 Carrying a big list --
2 The new pressures of dating --
3 Date around, but don't sleep around --
4 Glorifying our past --
5 Staying stuck in grief --
6 The betraual of loving again --
7 Sex and self-esteem --
8 Sex, obligation, and self-worth --
9 Expecting the earth to shake --
10 The movies vs. real life --
11 Attracting the wrong partner --
12 Overromanticizing --
13 Woman seeking sensitive man --
14 Focusing on the negative --
15 Who needs a man? --
16 Women who do too much --
17 Taking care of others --
18 A woman's fear of intimacy --
19 My children need me --
20 But my children are jealous --
21 Acting out feelings rather than communicating --
22 Learning to be happy alone --
23 All or nothing --

PART THREE: Starting over on Mars --
1 Man on the rebound --
2 Sex on the rebound --
3 Positive addictions --
4 Work, money, and love --
5 Love is not enough --
6 Learning from our mistakes --
7 We don't have to stop loving --
8 Unrequited love --
9 Taking responsibility to let go --
10 Soul mates are not perfect --
11 Being in a hurry --
12 Recognizing a soul mate --
13 Living out our fantasies --
14 Can't live with them and can't live without them --
15 The endless search --
16 Holding back --
17 Being vs. doing --
18 Bigger is doing --
19 Finding balance --
20 Picking the righ woman --
21 Learning to say good-bye --
22 Self-destructive tendencies --
23 Finding the power to provide