TY - BOOK AU - Gushee,David P. TI - Getting marriage right: realistic counsel for saving and strengthening relationships SN - 0801012627 AV - BT 706 G972 2004 PY - 2004/// CY - Grand Rapids, MI PB - Baker Books KW - MARRIAGE KW - RELIGIOUS ASPECTS KW - CHRISTIANITY N1 - Includes bibliographical references; Part 1 AMID THE RUINS -- 1. Fading fast: the decline of marriage as an institution -- 2. Structural damage: why marriage collapsed -- 3 Squandered legacy: the consequences of divorce for children -- Part 2 REBUILDING THE MARRIAGE CATHEDRAL -- 4. The creation purposes of marriage-- 5. The skills (and virtues) of marriage -- 6. Covenant as the structural principle of marriage -- 7. Suffering in marriage (and divorce) -- 8. The kingdom possibilities of marriage -- 9. The church as marriage counterculture -- 10. Marriage and the law -- Epilogue: Why Christians divorce "just like everyone else" -- Appendix: the divorce interviews ER -