TY  - BOOK
AU  - Doyle,Laura
TI  - The surrendered single: a practical guide to attracting and marrying the man who's right for you 
SN  - 0743217896
AV  - HQ 801 D775 2002
PY  - 2002///
CY  - New York, NY
PB  - Simon & Schuster
KW  - DATING (SOCIAL CUSTOMS)
KW  - MATE SELECTION
KW  - SINGLE WOMEN
KW  - PSYCHOLOGY
KW  - CONDUCT OF LIFE
KW  - CONTROL (PSYCHOLOGY)
N1  - Introduction: the way you always wanted things to happen --
Take the quiz: are you attracting the man who's right for you? --
1. Surrender to your desire to be happily married --
2. Give up the idea of the perfect man --
3. Stop male-bashing and start admiring men --
4. Flirt with every man you see --
5. Ask men to asl you out --
6. Rethink your negative beliefs about dating --
7. Your fears are holding you back --
8. End friendships with ex-boyfriends --
9. Make yourself happy every day --
10. Receive graciously --
11. Jump-start your love life with a dating service --
12. Accept dates with men you normally wouldn't go out with --
13 Decline dates with dignity --
14. Surrender on the first date --
15. Make all your dates fun --
16. Keep flirting with every guy you see --
17. Stay in the moment --
18. Separate the good guys from the bad boys --
19. You'll recognize the man who's right for you --
20. Don't use sex to control the relationship --
21. There's nothing to fera but your urge to control Him --
22. Trust His capabilities --
23. Express your hurt without making demands --
24. Keep your life even though He's in it --
25. Becoming your best self will bring out the best in him --
26. Make a commitment before you move on --
27. Honor your desire to be married, but never make ultimatums --

Epilogue: the miracles of surrendering
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